Live, love, marriage, then life

I was surprised earlier today when I found out through Facebook, yet another relative had given birth to a newborn. I celebrate the giving of life, the birth of a fresh soul from heaven is a gift for the whole world, it brings something so natural, so pure, it reminds us of our true essence. Yet, as much as I can celebrate anyone giving life, I think of how life, rather, how I would love to see life given. If at some point in my lifetime, I procreate, bringing life into this world is like nothing else. This isn't something that will just happen, in some instances, yes, it does just happen and the child simply comes into this world. I feel a strong connection to newborns, children in general have a very special place in my heart. As I've said, it's not like anything, it's not like something that is just created and finished overnight like an essay that is almost due and needs to be cranked out so it's just thrown together last minute.
I may be very fortunate to have the background I have (in the sense of wonderful family, friends, relatives) and the best part of all of this that always makes things better is my mother. Sure, dad wasn't really there, physically he may have shown up to special things for me and my sisters but he wasn't really present, his sincerity, honesty, truthfulness was not really there, but mom, she is always there and not just for me and my sisters but many others, she always entirely there. Mom has always been there and this is a beautiful thing many others share as well but I will never have this pattern show up within the family I create, I will always be there for my family.
As I plan for my future, if there is a mutual feeling of procreation between me and my wife, I would create life as lovely as we both can. It's life being made. I haven't yet asked my mom where or how I was conceived when my parents decided to walk the plank but I get the sense there wasn't time before I was conceived where there was preparation for this life being brought into the world. For my wife and I, at least 6 months before conception, we would both assure our health, our commitment, and for the 6 months we prepare, we would never create stress for each other. I would make sure my wife and I receive regular massage treatments to relax and free our bodies from any outside stress in preparation for new life. Eating healthy, exercising, romantic love sessions, and special treatment of each other would be a regular practice not only for the 6 months before conception but always. As well, we would make sure to learn and attend as many pregnancy classes as possible to better suit ourselves for our child.
During pregnancy, my wife and I would stay together as much as possible. Work would be put aside because well, work can wait. For the next 9 months, my and I would continue caring for this new life very well and take care of it just as if it were already with us as a baby. There would be no stress put upon my wife or me. Organic food would be priority when purchasing any food. Any chemical would remain far and away from my wife and child.
This all sounds like nothing or no one would touch my wife or child but come on, I can't put all of the worries and burdens of the world on myself, this is just a beautiful outline for a beautiful life to be created. Procreating for me, isn't just talking about it, then soon after conceiving, and THEN taking care of it all, it's the first step that really matters and for me and my wife, the first step begins with us.