It is said that my dad drinks during the day, that he drinks at night, that he now drinks socially. We (my family) wonder who influences him now. It is not us because he never did that when he was with us. Once you are separated from something so loving and caring who knows how you will cultivate that for yourself. I have, I recognize that I have because everyone reminds me that I have. I wonder how many others drink, just like my dad.